RELATIONSHIP DIAGNOSTIC CALCULATOR

Relationship Diagnostic Calculator (RDC)

The RDC is a diagnostic tool for understanding the health of any relationship/marriage. The tool calculates, based on your answers to 40 closed-ended questions, the health conditions of your relationship. The questions are divided into eight (8) segments, each representing a major aspect of a healthy relationship. For a "Yes", "Positive" "High" response, you obtain 10 marks and for a "No", "Negative" and "Low" response, you obtain 0 mark. The total marks obtainable is 400 (100%). 

The results of your response to the questions are analyzed for you to know what needs to be done to salvage your relationship or move on if improvement seems not in sight. 

You can also use the results to discuss calmly with your partner what areas must be improved on for a healthy and long-lasting relationship.

Please take the test below (FULL INTERPRETATION OF THE TEST QUESTIONS CAN BE ACCESSED HERE): 

Relationship Diagnostic Calculator (RDC)

The RDC is a diagnostic tool for understanding the health of any relationship or marriage. Answer all questions honestly to get a comprehensive relationship assessment report.

Sense of Commitment

1. Does she identify with your future plans or dreams? Yes No

2. Does she support your vision financially, spiritually, emotionally and physically? Yes No

3. Does she have faith in the relationship/marriage? Yes No

4. Does she put effort into reconciliation after arguments? Yes No

5. Would she rather stay and resolve issues instead of leaving? Yes No

Sense of Support

6. What is her attitude toward family financial contribution? Positive Negative

7. Is she financially accountable? Yes No

8. Does she support the family willingly? Yes No

9. Does she spend wisely on necessary items? Yes No

10. Is she generous to you? Yes No

Sense of Respect / Loyalty / Submission

11. Does she respect your loved ones? Yes No

12. Does she respect you and your opinion? Yes No

13. Does she carry out instructions respectfully? Yes No

14. Does she respect the sanctity of the relationship? Yes No

15. Does she avoid abusive or vulgar words? Yes No

Sense of Appreciation

16. Does she value your gifts and effort? Yes No

17. Does she say thank you for your effort? Yes No

18. Does she express words of love and appreciation? Yes No

19. Has she gifted you outside special occasions? Yes No

20. Is she proud to show you off publicly? Yes No

Sense of Remorse

21. Does she apologize genuinely? Yes No

22. Does she admit when she is wrong? Yes No

23. Does she show remorse after wrongdoing? Yes No

24. Does she avoid blaming you for her wrongs? Yes No

25. Has she ever shown deep emotional remorse? Yes No

Sense of Openness

26. Does she grant access to her phone? Yes No

27. Does she feel safe with her phone in your hands? Yes No

28. Would her reaction to phone swap be positive? Positive Negative

29. Is she free-minded regarding her phone? Yes No

30. Is she calm when you hold her phone? Yes No

Sense of Cooperation & Emotional Maturity

31. Is she cooperative in the relationship? Yes No

32. Is she willing to work together in family responsibilities? Yes No

33. Is she humble during disagreements? Yes No

34. Is she calm during arguments? Yes No

35. Is she reasonable during discussions? Yes No

Level of Intelligence

36. Does she understand simple instructions and think independently? Yes No

37. Can she supervise children's homework effectively? Yes No

38. Can she manage assignments or projects effectively? Yes No

39. Does she value learning and self-development? Positive Negative

40. How would you rate her general intelligence? High Low