RELATIONSHIP DIAGNOSTIC CALCULATOR QUESTIONS

 Sense of Commitment 

1. Does she identify with your future plans or dreams?  Yes or No?

2. Does she support your vision financially, spiritually (through prayers), emotionally and physically?  Yes or No?

3. Does she have faith in the relationship/marriage or she puts up a cold attitude/threatens with divorce?  Yes or No?

4. When there is little argument in the home, does she put in effort to reconcile with you or she waits for you to come begging?  Yes or No?

5. Would she rather stay or leave for her friend's/family's place in the event that there is a non-violent altercation?  Yes or No?

Sense of Support 

6. What is usually her reaction or attitude towards financial contribution to the family expense or project?  Positive or Negative?

7. Is she financially accountable? Does she spend even her own money wisely or she spends more on frivolities?  Yes or No?

8. Does she support the family willingly or she does that reluctantly after a protracted argument? Yes or No?

9. On items as immaterial as toiletries, does she spend her own money or she has to wait until you are back even when you are certain she can afford it?  Yes or No?

10. Is she generous to you or stingy?

Sense of Respect/Loyalty/Submission 

11. Does she value or respect your parents, siblings, friends or anyone/anything you hold dearly or she treats them with little or no respect?  Yes or No?

12. Does she respect you or your opinion or she treats you with disdain?  Yes or No?

13. Does she carry out your instructions cautiously and respectfully or she treats them with kid's glove?  Yes or No?

14. Does she respect the sanctity of your relationship/marriage or she dares you even to the point of talking to or chatting with another man in your presence?  Yes or No?

15. Does she tame her tongue or she uses vulgar words (indiscriminately) like: "You are stupid", "You are an idiot", etc on you?  Yes or No?

Sense of Appreciation

16. Does she value your gifts to her or she looks down on you?  Yes or No?

17. Does she say, "Thank you" for your effort towards her life, the children and the family in general?  Yes or No?

18. Does she remember to express words of love and appreciation or gift you on your birthday?  Yes or No?

19. Has she ever presented you a gift outside your special day (Birthday)?  Yes or No?

20. Is she proud to show you off as her partner at any outings or at a social gathering? Yes or No?

Sense of Remorse 

21. Does she genuinely apologies or say, "I'm sorry" for her wrongs?  Yes or No?

22. Does she ever admit she is wrong and take the blame for her wrongs?  Yes or No?

23. Does she feel/look sober when she goes wrong or she is the type that keeps a straight/stern face?  Yes or No?

24. After a wrongdoing, does she immediately admit her fault or she blames you for her own wrongdoing?  Yes or No?

25. Has she ever genuinely broken down in tears for her wrongs?  Yes or No?

Sense of Openness 

26. Does she usually grant you access to her mobile phone?  Yes or No?

27. Does she feel safe with her phone in your hands?  Yes or No?

28. What would her reaction look like if you asked her to swap her phone with yours for a moment?  Positive or Negative?

29. Is she free-minded or she loves to lock her phone with password known only to her?  Yes or No?

30. Is she always calm whenever she finds her phone in your hands or she is always aggressive or argumentative?  Yes or No?

Sense of Cooperation and Emotional Maturity (Problem of Feminism)

31. Is she cooperative or she often says, "I am not your slave" or "don't treat me like I am your slave"?  Yes or No?

32. Is she submissive or she likes to have chores (like laundries, dish washing, cooking, etc) shared between the both of you?  Yes or No?

33. Is she humble or she loves to talk back at you violently?  Yes or No?

34. Is she calm or she is quick at raising her hands on you or even slap you during argument?  Yes or No?

35. Is she reasonable or she is the type who loves to win in every argument?  Yes or No?

Level of Intelligence 

36. Does she understand simple instructions and can think independently, using her intuition/initiative without having to wait until you are back before a simple decision can be taken?  Yes or No?

37. Does she possess the ability to supervise her kid's school's home work even at the primary school level?  Yes or No?

38. What is your assessment of her ability to successfully manage any given assignment/business venture/project? Do you think she would be a good manager?  Yes or No?

39. What is her attitude towards advancing knowledge (E.g. reading good books, seeing educative programmes on screens, learning/acquiring skills, etc)?  Positive or Negative?

40. How would you rate her general intelligence? High or Low?