RELATIONSHIP DIAGNOSTIC CALCULATOR

Relationship Diagnostic Calculator (RDC)

The RDC is a diagnostic tool for understanding the health of any relationship/marriage. The tool calculates, based on your answers to 40 closed-ended questions, the health conditions of your relationship. The questions are divided into eight (8) segments, each representing a major aspect of a healthy relationship. For a "Yes", "Positive" "High" response, you obtain 10 marks and for a "No", "Negative" and "Low" response, you obtain 0 mark. The total marks obtainable is 400 (100%). 

The results of your response to the questions are analyzed for you to know what needs to be done to salvage your relationship or move on if improvement seems not in sight. 

You can also use the results to discuss calmly with your partner what areas must be improved on for a healthy and long-lasting relationship.

Please take the test below: 

Relationship Diagnostic Calculator (RDC)

The RDC is a diagnostic tool for understanding the health of any relationship or marriage. Answer all questions honestly and click the button below to calculate your result.

Sense of Commitment

1. Does she identify with your future plans or dreams? Select Yes No

2. Does she support your vision financially, spiritually, emotionally and physically? Select Yes No

3. Does she have faith in the relationship/marriage? Select Yes No

4. During arguments, does she make effort to reconcile? Select Yes No

5. Would she rather stay and resolve issues than leave? Select Yes No

Sense of Support

6. Is her attitude towards financial contribution positive? Select Positive Negative

7. Is she financially accountable? Select Yes No

8. Does she support the family willingly? Select Yes No

9. Does she willingly spend on little family needs? Select Yes No

10. Is she generous to you? Select Yes No

Sense of Respect / Loyalty / Submission

11. Does she respect your loved ones? Select Yes No

12. Does she respect your opinions? Select Yes No

13. Does she carry out instructions respectfully? Select Yes No

14. Does she respect the sanctity of the relationship? Select Yes No

15. Does she avoid abusive or vulgar words? Select Yes No

Sense of Appreciation

16. Does she value your gifts? Select Yes No

17. Does she say “Thank You” for your efforts? Select Yes No

18. Does she express love and appreciation? Select Yes No

19. Has she gifted you outside special occasions? Select Yes No

20. Is she proud to show you off publicly? Select Yes No

Sense of Remorse

21. Does she genuinely apologize? Select Yes No

22. Does she admit when she is wrong? Select Yes No

23. Does she show remorse after wrongdoing? Select Yes No

24. Does she admit faults instead of blaming you? Select Yes No

25. Has she genuinely broken down emotionally over wrongdoing? Select Yes No

Sense of Openness

26. Does she grant access to her phone? Select Yes No

27. Is she comfortable with you holding her phone? Select Yes No

28. Would she react positively to swapping phones briefly? Select Positive Negative

29. Is she open-minded about phone privacy? Select Yes No

30. Is she calm when you hold her phone? Select Yes No

Sense of Feminism

31. Is she cooperative? Select Yes No

32. Is she submissive and supportive in chores? Select Yes No

33. Is she humble? Select Yes No

34. Is she calm during arguments? Select Yes No

35. Is she reasonable during disagreements? Select Yes No

Level of Intelligence

36. Does she understand simple instructions independently? Select Yes No

37. Can she supervise children's homework? Select Yes No

38. Would she manage assignments/projects successfully? Select Yes No

39. Is her attitude toward learning positive? Select Positive Negative

40. How would you rate her intelligence? Select High Low